Therapy Musings Blog

Why Do I Keep Replaying Conversations? Rumination, Anxiety and the Inner Critic

Do you replay conversations in your head long after they happen? This post explores rumination, anxiety, shame, the inner critic and why the mind can get stuck reviewing what you said, did or should have done differently.

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Why Rest Feels Hard: How to Take Time Away Without Guilt

Rest sounds simple, but for many people it brings up guilt, pressure, anxiety or the feeling that they should be doing more. In this post, I explore why rest can feel so hard, how inner critics and people-pleasing patterns get involved, and how to begin taking time away without guilt.

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8 ways to get through the holiday season

If the holidays feel heavy instead of joyful, you’re not alone. This season can bring stress, loneliness, and pressure—but it can also be a chance to slow down and care for yourself. In this post, I share gentle, practical ways to find calm and connection, even in challenging times.

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A Reflection on Father’s Day, Family Dynamics and Inner Work

Father’s Day can bring up more than celebration. For some, it stirs family dynamics, grief, attachment wounds, inner critics, boundaries and old roles. This reflection explores how family-of-origin patterns can shape us, and how inner work can help us meet these parts with compassion and clarity.

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What the hell is EFT? Emotional Freedom Technique Explained

EFT, also known as Emotional Freedom Techniques or tapping, is a body-based approach that combines focused attention with gentle tapping on acupressure points. This post explains what EFT is, how it may support stress, anxiety and trauma responses, and how Clinical EFT can be used within counselling and psychotherapy.

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Why Inner Alchemy? Online Counselling & Psychotherapy Australia

Inner Alchemy was created to offer counselling and psychotherapy that goes deeper than symptom management. This post explores inner work, shadow work, somatic awareness, Process Work, and how disturbances such as anxiety, grief, body symptoms or burnout can become signals for growth and healing.Discover why Inner Alchemy Counselling exists and how inner work, depth psychology, and somatic therapy can transform anxiety, stress, and life challenges into growth and resilience.

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